First Date

Being fairly active in the San Francisco Bay Area BDSM scene has eventually led me to join the social networking site FetLife.com. FetLife has a few different aspects to it. One is it works as a, mostly, amateur porn site. Another is the pure social networking aspect of it. There are groups for you to join and make friends. The last aspect of it is to function as a sort of dating/hookup site. The latter has led to me making a few new play partners who are willing to engage in some kink play.

One girl, A, and I messaged each other for quite some time. We decided to go out on a date. A real date. I would pick her up at a designated time, and we would talk and get to know one another better. Because of our shared interest in BDSM we would go to Wicked Grounds and then go around the corner to Bondage a GoGo.

While I drank coffee and she had a sandwich, it was discussed our limits and such were we to ever get into a play space; that she is a big fan of public groping. I liked this idea. She was adorned with a collar and would be playing with my junk the whole night while we watched other people engage in rope play and impact play. Once at the club she did not disappoint. We spent a good while making out while having a bit of breath play. Even with her collar, I could choke her. She would look up at me adoringly and then tell me how wet her pussy is. She then stood in front of me, ass grinding into my crotch and reaching behind to play with me. At one point a man came by who I could best describe as Kinky Tom Waits, handed me a pair of handcuffs and told me “It’s sad to see these not getting any use” and then gave me the key. I proceeded to take my dates hands and cuff them behind her back and leave my crotch in her two latched hands. I could feel her trying to unzip my pants and then reach her hand inside my fly and continue to rub my cock. After a while we decided it was getting fairly late and both of us a bit tired, I would drive her home. I graciously returned the handcuffs and we proceeded to walk to my car. Onlookers from the neighboring car staring at my date and I. I was wearing a three piece suit, and her adorned in corset and collar.

Once A and I returned to my car we looked at one another and began to make out a bit more. I slipped my hand down the front of her corset and began to play with her breasts. She then told me that there has been something she has wanted to do all night and she took out my dick and proceeded to give me head while we were parked on a fairly busy San Francisco street. While she continued to suck me off, I slipped my hand in her dress and began to finger her ass. She moaned with delight while I continuing to deep throat me. There was many a times a cop car would drive by that I would hold her head down as to not have to much motion in the car. Also listening to her gag was turning me on. I remember many people walking by the car, most not caring to look out way, but one homeless lady did watch us for a good 5 minutes. A was a trooper 40 minutes late I came in her mouth. She smiled up at me then told me her address to punch into my phone’s GPS so I may take her home.